Category Archives: The beloved self!

“It’s Your Loss, Not Mine.”

 

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I’m thankful to the tough people in my life. Thankful to those who have hurt me to the core. Thankful to those who made me cry hard. Thankful to those who gifted me sleepless nights drenched in tears. Thankful to those who gave a hopeful flight to me only to crush it later. Thankful to those who didn’t trust me. Thankful to those who doubted my potential. Thankful to those who considered me as a liability. Thankful for the moments when my hard work and sincerity were mocked at. Thankful to those who took me for granted when I cared for them with all my heart. Thankful to those who ignored me when I needed them the most. Thankful to those who accused me of being pretentious when I loved them deeply.

It is because of you that I am what I am today. Had you not shown hatred to me I would have never loved the ones who need it with all my heart. Because I know the pain. I know how much it hurts when you are taken for granted and ignored by those you thought would stand by you.

It is because of you that I tread on the paths unforeseen to discover my hidden potentialities which otherwise would have died a silent death.

It is because of you that I am confident and contented with my own worth. It matters who wishes to stay and it would also matter if someone wants to walk away especially when that someone has been close to your heart.

I love everyone. I am wary of hurting anyone. I am a very good friend and I wish everyone well. If someone finds faults with it then I have just one thing to say, “It’s your loss, not mine.”

Beauty and the Beast

Related image Something very strange happened today in school. Beauty and the Beast’ is the story of the month for my class. So, I played the animation movie of ‘Beauty and the Beast’ for my children on the smart board and started watching it. The characters of ‘Beauty’ and the ‘Beast’ transcended me to a magical world where I felt hypnotised. It was lunch time and the kids were merrily enjoying their meal as they watched the movie. There was pin-drop silence in the class. We were completely lost in the story. Suddenly, I heard a faint voice calling my name. The volume increased gradually and the final blow to this ecstatic feeling was given by my nanny who was literally banging at the half-opened door of my classroom just to gain my attention. And the spell was broken.

Love is enchanting. Magical. Beautiful. I had once read somewhere that love comes in all shapes and sizes. Don’t know about that but, no matter what shape, size, age, looks, status, time or era it is… when love hits you… you feel no pain. It’s a trance. You get hurt, feel humiliated, hate yourself for being taken for granted innumerable times throughout the day throughout the year throughout your life. This is what is called life, right? It does cut like a knife. But if you have that one   last   strand   of love to hold on… you can walk  through the pain with a smile on your face. It’s the smile that’s stronger than the army of a thousand rivals. Love is the food for life so… love on…

Fall in Love!

Hello World! How have you been? Great, I believe. If not,  well life is not a bed of roses. Rewards n people may come n go. What stays with you is  your own dear ‘ self  ‘. Now the question is, what would you like to do with this ‘ self ‘ of yours? Upgrade. Yes that is the mantra. Upgrade yourself in whichever way you can. Feel fresh, eat healthy, sleep well. If you complain of sleeplessness, don’t worry. You may not get sleep for few days. But after those few days you’ll surely sleep as you have never slept before. Life is full of hassles n hurdles. But you need to find time for this ‘ self ‘ of yours n pamper it   as much as you can. Coz it is this ‘ self ‘ that makes you what you are. Fall in love with your ‘ self ‘ n soon d ‘ self ‘ will fall in love with you.

Now, take a break n have a nice cup of your favorite  beverage. Promise to see u soon !